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  • The Art of Letting Go: How to Release Control and Find Freedom

    We want to have everything planned out and under control, from our careers to our personal lives. However, this need for control can often lead to stress, anxiety, and a lack of freedom. Learning to let go can be a powerful tool in finding peace and happiness within ourselves.

    Letting go is not about giving up, but rather about surrendering to the flow of life. It means acknowledging that there are certain things beyond our control and accepting them as they are. By letting go, we release ourselves from the burdens of worry, fear, and anxiety that come with trying to control everything.

    One of the biggest challenges in letting go is the fear of the unknown. We are often afraid of what might happen if we let go of our control. But the truth is, the unknown can be a source of freedom and growth. When we let go of our need for control, we open ourselves up to new possibilities and opportunities that we may have never considered before.

    Another challenge in letting go is the attachment we have to our thoughts and emotions. We often hold onto negative thoughts and emotions, such as resentment or anger, because we believe they are protecting us in some way. But in reality, holding onto these emotions only harms us in the long run. Learning to let go of these negative emotions can lead to a greater sense of inner peace and emotional freedom.

    So how do we learn to let go? It starts with awareness. Pay attention to the areas in your life where you are trying to control everything. Ask yourself why you feel the need to control those things. Is it out of fear? Insecurity? Once you identify the underlying issue, you can begin to work on releasing your grip on those things.

    Another helpful tool in letting go is mindfulness. Practicing mindfulness helps us stay present in the moment and focus on what is happening right now, rather than worrying about the future or dwelling on the past. By staying present, we can let go of our attachment to the past and future and focus on what we can control in the present moment.

    In conclusion, letting go is a powerful tool in finding peace and freedom within ourselves. It’s not about giving up or losing control, but rather about surrendering to the flow of life and accepting the things we cannot control. By practicing mindfulness and awareness, we can learn to let go of our attachment to negative thoughts and emotions and find greater emotional freedom and inner peace.


    Jenmarie Eadie is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who is passionate about empowering women to take control of their mental health by finding balance and inner peace in the midst of perfectionism and anxiety. She received her Master’s in Social Work from Arizona State with a concentration in Behavioral Health. Her proudest accomplishment is following her dream of opening up a practice focused on helping high-achieving, goal-oriented women. She currently serves women in California and Oregon (CA LCSW# 66634 and OR# L13328).